Pray “For” NOT “About”
February 18, 2024 (Post #71)
(From Journal #11: October 26, 2007)
Lord, You gave me another amazing revelation recently as I was “praying” about some lingering issues John and I have been going through. As I was giving You MY list of changes I wanted to see in him, I heard the Holy Spirit speak to my spirit: “If you would pray FOR him instead of ABOUT him, I can work with that. You aren’t praying for changes in him for his sake, but for your sake.” Ouch!
This truth hit me in the face. I wasn’t praying for him, but grumbling and complaining about him and arrogantly telling You what should be done. Selfishness and a controlling spirit were at the root of my so-called prayers. The changes I wanted to see were really for my benefit and not his. Lord, forgive me.
As I began to sincerely pray for him, for his walk with You, for the healing of emotional wounds and unforgiveness he carried, for his spiritual and physical healing, for Your grace, mercy and will in his life, my heart began to change. I let go of some bitterness and unforgiveness of my own. As my prayers changed for him, the things I had wanted to see began to happen, for the right reasons.
This is such a powerful lesson, Lord. Whether we’re praying for loved ones or even our enemies, the motives behind the prayers must truly be for their benefit and not our selfish desires and needs. You did everything for…
Philippians 2:3-4 “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.”
James 4:3 “And even when you ask, you don’t get it because your motives are all wrong—you want only what will give you pleasure.”
Luke 23:24 “Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do. “